We all know the big names—Atomic Habits, Think and Grow Rich, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—and while those are great, there are a few lesser-known self-help gems that quietly rewired how I think, feel, and live. Here are five that I wish more people talked about.


1. The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga

This Japanese philosophy-meets-therapy book challenged how I view trauma, identity, and happiness. It’s written like a conversation, and I found myself underlining something on almost every page.

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2. Do the Work by Steven Pressfield

This slim book packs a punch. If you struggle with procrastination (like I do), it’s a kick in the soul. Practical, no-nonsense, and great for creatives and entrepreneurs alike.

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3. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway by Susan Jeffers

Originally published in the 1980s, this one is timeless. I read it during a season of self-doubt, and it gave me permission to stop waiting for the fear to go away before I moved forward.

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4. Untamed by Glennon Doyle

This one surprised me. It’s poetic, raw, and deeply empowering—especially if you’re navigating identity, boundaries, or relationships. It taught me that being true to myself isn’t selfish; it’s essential.

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5. The War of Art by Steven Pressfield

Yes, another Pressfield book. I couldn’t not include it. This one cracked open my resistance to doing creative work. I re-read it once a year—it's that good.

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These books may not have the hype, but they’ve had a quiet, powerful impact on my journey. If you’re looking for something different—something deeper—start here.

Have you read any underrated self-help gems? Let me know—I’m always on the hunt for the next mind-shifter.


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